Yup I knew exactly what you were talking about in last thread! I too lived in both areas. Found advantages and disadvantages to both. And it would be great to meet up with someone going through similar stuff.
Don't you wish, you could go back in time knowing what you do now? It's so frusturating looking back at the process. Having emotions take over actions etc. I understand the advice now but didn't in the heat of emotions.
MWD had a post on her divorce busting facebook site today with great advice. Check it out.
And I agree and I wish I was smarter earlier!
Anyway, I Am so happy that you are doing better, and I understand your desire to stabilize by getting divorce settled. I feel the same way!