2T, I, so sorry to hear about your D’s situation. It does sound like her H might be having a MLC. I’m sorry you have to deal with two crises. I would not do anything right now, in terms of telling your H about this. Unless he asks. And then I would just tell him the basic facts without going into the details. Give this news a few day to settle down in your head, and then I think you will know better what to do and how to approach it.
Thinking of you, 2T.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state