As for telling someone they look good, I would if genuine.
I love to hear I look ok and pass, according xh2 I never did, and he made sure he told me I looked bad at times. He believed in constructive criticism. Stupid really.
Bwwwhhahhah his loss.
If you have good memories of school and mates then go. I didn't have a really fun time at school and hated being teased and harassed by the other kids. Most never had time for me at school nor after so I really am not overly bothered by them.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26