I put a little hint of Stuff in another thread of how I'm getting xh2 to give me thing I want with reverse pyschology. Demand what I don't want to get him to give me what I do!
Some things I can explain in more detail once it's all over. I think the strange happening are over but I suspect he's still doing mlc drive bys.
Not my drama not my circus and not my monkies.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
Had a bit of a night out last night with bf, unlike others if I have a few wines I cannot sleep. Today I've hit the wall.
I know I said in the past if you don't block the xh and his nutso family you let them look you let them stay connected and feel they miss you. Well I decided they can miss me without the advantage of fb. I went thru and systematically blocked each one and their spouse. He sent his slezey cousin who cheats and his wife just allows it because they are religious, to drop of some of my possessions even after he said it would be a third party.
So now your answer, nilla is yes the AV returned.
The mil slithered out from under her rock again, and next time I'm going to be scarey and say hello, but I'm gunna put her in her place. Let her know I think she's nasty and get a truth dart in on her. I don't see why I owe her anything, and want her to just leave me the Hell alone. They used xh2 first wife as many dinner conversations and never anything good about her. If nothing else it will give them something to talk about.
Xh2 behaivour in the last few arms length things have comuncated spew and nasty spew. More of the same from him. Shows he's still very much attached and perhaps not in a good way. He's living in the past, when my actions with bf basically living here, pretending I'm still desperately wanting him back?????? More and more I feel sorry for him, he's totally lost his grip on reality and I'm thinking mlc more and more.
Why on earth, would I want the abuse and him back! Saw s18 today in passing and I'm guessing he's still not my friend which is fine I waved as I passed by but he didn't bother.
Last I talked with him he is saying he's saving $ he's getting things together. Must be tough paying bills! his actions say a bit different tho.
Supposed to be a massive wet coming for the next week or so.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
I thought in the beginning sandi rules where a bit extreme.
Not contacting, none ever, it will be seen as pursuit. This must be true even now for xh2, even with bf on the scene he thinks gg wants nothing more than to chase him by phone or message.
One message a year ago, in late April counts as chasing? Go figure and 2 this week to organise my Gear return.
So I've re blocked his numbers, along with as I said last night his friends and family on fb. This mans ego must have its own post code. He seems to be unable to read basic English instructions left by the L. He is full of angry spew which he vented via the lawyer. He seems unable to remember things very well.
Interstate bestie does not subscribe to mlc, she thinks his behiavours are very much like her mum and she had dementure. So like the ic says the truth always comes out always it just takes time. Is soo very true.
It must nearly be time to either choose which forum I move to, I'm suspecting same as mayb and divorced one.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
his actions say a bit different tho.