I am very sorry to hear about your father. I can relate to your situation as my mother was given a clean bill of health from uterine cancer that she was diagnosed with last year a month after the BD for me. Only a month later she was diagnosed with breast cancer and has had 2 surgeries and starts further treatments shortly. Timing is not good, but prayer has kept me grounded and with hope. I will have you, your father and your family in my prayers this night.
I pray that you will have strength and hope at this time my friend.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine