Vapo thanks for the smile.

How can things keep getting worse? So last night d21 tells me her pregnancy is giving her problems with her liver. The doctor wants to induce her early, perhaps going as early as the end of July.

I felt like she wasn't giving me the full story, so I texted W last night to ask her what was going on. D21 has 'cholestasis' which requires weekly treatments. The baby is especially in danger.

I texted W saying this was scary. W texted that she was "terrified". I told her I got it, given our history of having 7 miscarriages.

OK, then today s14 got arrested! Last week he used W and om's credit cards to buy some PS games. W read him the riot act. So s14 went to a store with his friends and stole a knife. His friend gave him enough to cover W's credit card charge.

The store is pressing charges, with a court hearing coming up. W believes s14 is on drugs. The police officer said s14 looked like he was "stoned". W was fed up, and told me to have him for the week. The friends are a big problem here, and today W says she wants him out of her school district. My place is in a different city.

So I bought a drug test for s14. I watched him pee, and the test came back all negative. S14 said he did better than om who failed a work drug test a month ago! Noooo!

W then said s14 would stay at my place for the week. We took away his phone which is a big punishment as he is on it all day. He said "he was sorry", and I added "for getting caught?" And he said yes. Arggghhh!

W then said we should have lunch next week. I have my suspicions about what we will discuss. But NO mindreading here.


Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace