Unfortunately, he will be back with her on Father's Day. My first Father's Day without my family. I wish I could be inside her head and know what she's thinking. She used to tell me "the opposite of love is not hate. It's apathy." And that's how I feel she thinks of me now. Doesn't love me or hate me. Simply feels nothing at all. She hasn't even called or texted to check on him which is out of character for her. Of course...her behavior in general has been out of character through all this. I fear that maybe I never truly knew her.
That's a shame she won't let him be with his Daddy on Father's Day. It's a selfish WW action for sure. Actually, when it comes to checking up on S, you're in a better spot than me. Mine has been using me for weeks to keep tabs on S so she can make separation as easy as possible on her. No more. You can't dump your family and expect it to be easy.
WW's behavior is sheer lunacy until they feel the consequences of their actions. Read up on Sandi's WW threads, it really helped me.
The odds she's apathetic are low. Apathetic people don't try to hurt you on purpose. Enjoy the time with your boy, don't worry about her (this isn't easy as she's still his Mom).
It's about to hit a month for me. I'm in a better place than I ever thought I would be. I love her, but I don't need her to be happy. I have my S, I'm GAL and becoming a better man than ever. It's a hard road to get here, and the more I read the threads on here I know I'm still a beginner. This is the most difficult thing you'll do, you've gotta be tough.
Keep fighting! We're here to help you!!
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.
