Hi Kyler. You got loads of replies and advice on what to do and all you took out of it was Sottos bit about not helping her with reasons for D

Nothing has changed , if you had asked us on this board if your W had discussed D with her friends we would all have answered yes. Of course she has , she believes the M is over and has done since BD.

Why do you trust this friend with the info so much and before you answer, did you trust W more or less than the. Friend before BD ? Do you get my point ?

You have a lot of people on your side on this board , more than most and that's because we all feel your pain and see you chasing every thought because you can't accept what is happening Until you do you will continue to wreck you head. Again , it's completely understandable BUT pick a road a stick with it

Don't believe anything W or her friends say right now , good or bad regarding your sitch , focus on you , that's all that you can control Accept that right now W is 100% done and any R you two have in the future will be from scratch and new

Take care. Rd