So ... do I say anything about all this to H? There's always been this "competition" between H and SIL and this would give H "validation" in some respects ... that SIL is not better or more "pure" than H ... that SIL's "high road" is not so high.

What do I do?

Me: 59 and holding
H: :53
Me: 1 S, 1 D, both grown
M: 19
T: 23
BD: 9-23-2013