My heart is breaking tonight.

I got a call from my D and she thinks her H46 is having an EA if not a PA with an OW.

She said that two weeks ago he was telling her much she meant to him and then he totally turned, telling her he wanted a "break" from the marriage, saying he wanted to "live as roommates" and angrily pointing out all the "bad" things she had done to him going back years.

It just broke my heart. She is partially handicapped and has been the primary breadwinner for many years. He hasn't had a "job" in over 10 years, always coming up with get rich fast plans that don't pan out or end of costing them money.

Apparently they've had some very vocal fights that her 4 kids have overheard while he ranted and spewed all his venom at her.

My SIL is a POS and always has been. I despise him. But, he was my D's H and the father of my grandkids, so I put a smile on my face and tolerated him. But now?

My D is perfectly capable of taking care of herself and her kids, but her handicap makes it so much more difficult.


Me: 59 and holding
H: :53
Me: 1 S, 1 D, both grown
M: 19
T: 23
BD: 9-23-2013