SH, my semi-bed and semi-breakfast is open right now for anyone that wants to check it out. Breakfast is self-serve, and probably consists entirely of eggs!!! You can have them poached, boiled, scrambled, fried, coddled, deviled, shirred, frittata'ed, quich'ed...

Spam, spam, spam, spam, spam, spam, and eggs. smile

I'm kidding around, but I am serious as a heart attack that you would be welcome.

I was thinking about the server growl just today! Thank you for the reminder. I'd probably just start laughing, though.

Off to find something positive to work on. Can't decide if that means actual work or social interaction. I did spend a bunch of time with my Mom already today, picking up some furniture she bought, having lunch, and then hauling said furniture upstairs to its destination. That was a challenge. I carried the furniture out to the truck with the seller and that was easy. With my Mom - not so much! It's funny how much harder it is to do a job with a person that does not anticipate what needs to be done.

My H was like that. I was reading about people-pleasers, and the book said that they would stand there and wait for directions at every turn, rather than risk displeasing anyone. Ding, Ding, Ding!!! We have a winner.

My mom is not a people-pleaser, she's just not very practiced at moving furniture.


H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16