Originally Posted By: Coconut
And for what it's worth, I love your last line.. That's where you need to be.

I'm a little confused as to her state, generally a new R brings energy and activity (resulting in weight loss), do you know if she is still seeing OM? It must suck to be in an A that makes you act depressed.


Thanks, it took a lot of will power to get here. Still have my moments, but am feeling more positive about myself daily.

The last time it came up was when she said last week, "Even if there weren't someone else kind of in the picture..." Don't know what that meant really. Lying to me? Just wants the single life? Second thoughts? Didn't change my outlook any, regardless. I'm working on me. If she cares about her son as much as she claims she does, she'd want to see him 7 days a week, show remorse for what she's done to this family and ask me and her son for forgiveness.

I guess I've just gotten really focused. I know I'm a good man, I just want to be a better one.....


Me: 35 W: 32
S: 4
T: 6 M: 4
Physical Separation official: 5/21
Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son

Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.