And for what it's worth, I love your last line.. That's where you need to be.
I'm a little confused as to her state, generally a new R brings energy and activity (resulting in weight loss), do you know if she is still seeing OM? It must suck to be in an A that makes you act depressed.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized