Being there to help v going dark:balance

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Sandi

Thanks and I appreciate the straight talk. Don't apologise for the straight talking approach. It's what makes you clear and a great guide in this forum. Don't worry you don't come accross as harsh. You come accross as direct and that what us newbies need - direction.

I totally agree with your comments but I was not always the guy that tried to please all the time. I was the guy that at times was quite selfish and said to stuff that I didn't agree with. We would debate and or argue and sometimes I would do what I felt was right anyway - sometimes it's better to apologise later rather than seek approval at times. Nothing major and I did do my fair share of compromise but certainly not a push over. So on that front I would say I was not the person you described so much. However, when the sh#t hit the fan and the D word was mentioned and I saw an EA it changed the game. I then became exactly the person you defined. It is hard to do the 180 - I only heard of it a month ago and have only really been trying to implement since she advised of moving out 3 weeks ago. I am going to sort it though as I feel like I have become a total doormat and it is really not me.

Time to get my balls back - they have been dangling from the WAWs ear lobes for far too long!!