FWIW, many, many newcomers feel the same way about the time. I do believe it causes the LBS to act out of panick mode, which is never a good idea.

What would you do differently if you had one month, instead of one year to DB?

Nothing ... have stopped the panic(shown) I do however have bought a of anxiety that is a little hard to deal with but that's part of my growth... As is runon sentences.

Sandi is the ww going through some difficulties as well or does the selfish nature override his? Or is it all channeled elsewhere .. Like to me? I always concern myself with me .. Not really realizing she is gong through some heavy sheot - dealing with it or not ...


Me:47 XW 43
D15 D10
Together 17 married 15
Bd : Mother's Day 2015
Sep :July 2015
Divorce final October 2016