Sandi : I know patience is key to db'n . Something I'm trying to keep in perspective. Our m is in a trial separation but gives no outlook on R . I am gal and using the time to self improve... I don't know why this is an issue but time is a question I wrestle with. Don't know how much time I have to work with. I know it takes 1yr for D to complete ... But alas if I'm wondering this then I haven't full dropped the rope ...if I knew I had the time I think the anxiety would subside and I would be more effective...not cramming... But then it would be for her and the m rather than solely for me which is the point... Did I just answer my own question ?


Me:47 XW 43
D15 D10
Together 17 married 15
Bd : Mother's Day 2015
Sep :July 2015
Divorce final October 2016