Oh, and rather than telling your W your not going to wait around (which won't work), show her... GAL like a mthrfckr, have fun, do you... Then you won't hang on her every word, you won't react to what she says or does. If you don't want to be plan B, then make it so, prepare yourself to move on, then do so when your ready.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized