Will link my previous post, out on my mobile phone at the moment.
Just finished my final IC session and was startled by some of the things that came out of it.
She all but told me that I need to take back control and go and get all my things out of the house, she also said that I need to initiate a conversation around D as she believes my W is burying her head in the sand and not facing up to her actions.
She thinks that timing is crucial and believes that I need to bring the subject up before she goes to Boston. My IC said that I shouldn't feel like I need to go through with the D but the fact I'm thinking about it would send a message to my W that I'm taking control back and she's not having it all her way.