I did sotto and she expressed reservations... But I also added that hers had asked as well so that feeling goes both ways. I was feeling as though some of her self inflicted quarantining was having a negative effect on my db'n so I backed up s bit and looked to include her - a little.
Me:47 XW 43 D15 D10 Together 17 married 15 Bd : Mother's Day 2015 Sep :July 2015 Divorce final October 2016