Hi Sara,
Sounds like there's improvement. Good job on the validation. Svcks that your H is still trying to shift the blame on you though.

At this point in time, sounds like your H is not ready to admit culpability yet. Which means that now is probably not a good time to get him to see your POV. Because to him, it will sound like you're trying to guilt-trip him.


You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.