No question about it. I try and help others in their threads who are dealing with a WW. And try to let them know how long it takes. In my situation the first time around WW and I started piecing too soon. And because of that I didn't get to the root of problem and neither did she. If I had to do over again I would have taken more time apart. I'm not rushing anything this time around and just doing my best to live in the moment and continue to work on me


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it