My wife walked out 2

[RSG]

I see where you're coming from, but I don't agree it was a doormat move. To me, being a doormat is letting her do something I have strong feelings against, mentioning it, her responding and immediately backing down. I really didn't care one way or the other about the haircut. It's insignificant in the grand scheme, but was a chance for her and I to come together on a parenting issue. She did apologize for complaining...

That said, I'm ready to drop the bomb on her the next time she asks me for updates when I have S. My parents agreed to let her Facetime them, and I almost told them to stop but my folks agreed. That's their choice. It's obvious she misses him and wants constant upkeep on him. My Mom said previously "She has no right to walk out on her husband and son and expect (me) to keep her up to date on everything. She's either a mother or she's not." I agree with this. She wants to know all about him, but can't keep up with him all the time. If my schedule allowed, I'd keep him everyday. Hers does, but she complains its too hard and has said before she can't take care of him without me.