Thanks sandi, that all resonates a lot, she definitely has lost a lot of respect for me that she once had. Finding my strength is going to be a big part of any path to saving our M, and just generally something I realize is a big part of my getting to be a better man.


Me: 34, W: 39
T: 10y, M: 8y
D 4, D 6
2nd M for both
BD: 4/22
status: separate beds, GAL, hopeful