Thanks sandi, that all resonates a lot, she definitely has lost a lot of respect for me that she once had. Finding my strength is going to be a big part of any path to saving our M, and just generally something I realize is a big part of my getting to be a better man.
Me: 34, W: 39 T: 10y, M: 8y D 4, D 6 2nd M for both BD: 4/22 status: separate beds, GAL, hopeful