Offering Prayer

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Jzmill: Thank you for bring up this very point. I don't know. I wish I did.

I do know we often scream at God and he whispers back.

I do know that God's timing and our timing are not the same

I do know that God created marriage and mankind has created S & D. Because of man's desire to be sinful and breakaway from God we are left with a variety of feelings, etc to deal with in our relationships.

So you may be following/Obeying God by being faithful and loving to your spouse and you will be rewarded for that. That reward may not come while you are on this earth - Yes that really [censored] to hear.

Your spouse may be following the ways of the world and will reject the love and commitment you have pledged and whatever happens is between them and God.

Yes, some of the techniques we use could be not what Jesus would do. Somethings would be OK. The hard part is to trust that God will take care of us no matter what.

I do believe that God would want us to be protected from bad thoughts, ideas and actions. So if detaching yourself is a way of not letting in bad thoughts, ideas, etc. Then God would be fine with that. The other side of the equation is we need to focus on God first.

All very easy to say - very hard to do.