Thank you. I haven't mentioned it because I am ashamed but she is also "using" with the OM I think. I found some evidence of it and have been watching her "ups and downs" for the last 5 months. So #1 speaks volumes to me, she would have 2 addictions to recover from to get her head out of the fog and her butt out of the weeds.
I really like your posts, they are so helpful.
Doing paper work today and getting my ducks in a row to be on the offense when the time comes to BD on her. This is for me, I am done with her financial and emotional withdraws from my bank.
Spending some time with my ailing father in another town this weekend, then back on fathers day to hang with my S13. Detaching by the minute, seeing her for who she really is. She is my STBXW
M 21 years XW 43yo, me 41 yo S13 BD March 2016 - she asked me to patient... End of June - I started the D process. D final 2/23/17 "He who forgets will be destined to remember" Eddie Vedder
