I am going to break every DB rule in the books

[Bear007]

Gabs, go with it if you feel that this is the only way and that you would regret not doing it.

It is your life, your wife, and you know it better than anyone.

One thing to remember - if this is the final step before full DB, or final step before it is over in your heart - then stick to it.

It hurts if you don't get what you want, but also who does not risk - does not win.

I am hoping you win!