so W texts me yesterday asking if I want some curtains back that she took. I said sure, anything you don't want, you can bring back. She asked for a few things that she forgot. I said ok, I'll put them in the garage and you can get them whenever (I took her house key).
She then starts texting about once an hour for things she remembers she wants. I tell her "make a list of what you remember that you want and then text me in a month or so" She said "that's weird, why would I do that?" "So you're not texting me everyday for things you want, and you can just get a bunch at once" "I'll just have S(18) do it" I was REALLY hoping she wasn't going to involve him. I told her to not get him involved to which she replied "can it be at least a week instead of a month" Sure I said, was just throwing a date out anyway.
Point being, I don't want her around right now. i'm doing really well, and feel anxious/maybe even angry whenever she contacts me or she is brought up in conversation. Distance is my friend right now.
Her S, my SS, has been staying with her. I anticipated that, but I bought a bed for him to sleep here in his room if he wanted to anyway. I am NOT ok with her using him to do her bidding in my house. I'd really hate to have to take his key too because I know that he'll do what she asks him to.
