C- that is horrible about the dissapearing friends. but its common in D.
What boils my temputure is also neighbors. My STBX has put on the act of "poor little me" in the divorce and I am going to be on my own having to support poor little self. The woman who I have been sort of friends with at the bus stop and their husbands are now a bit distant.
I am sure she poisoned their minds but she will remain there for a while so its just something i will have to deal with and move on.
I really want to roast her and put a big sign in our front yard of "CHEATER" and "SHE wanteed the Divorce and Cheated" but maybe that day comes over drinks in the near future
I still can not believe she continues to deny everything. Anytime it comes up she deflects and says I am fishing. But I know for a fact and its hurtful still even with starting to detach. I am going to wait until all this is wrapped up legally and then blow her out of the water. I won't have closure if I don't ......and its hard to detach without doing it too.
_________________________ Me-48 Spouse-WAW 52 Married for 10 years D7 ILYBNILWY 7/15 Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial She files 1/2016 Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....