I am extremely guilty of taking the chance to express my feelings towards someone I loved and lost through a letter or conversation.(happened a few times). When I did not get the reaction I hoped for, I would go over it and over it again in my head thinking I must have not made myself clear. They must be missing something about how I am feeling. I think I need to talk again, or right another letter until they see it my way.
I am very very much a pursuer. It has never, ever worked in my favor. I realize that if someone really truly wants to be with me, they will come and find me and I should never have to chase and reclarify. Such a difficult lesson to learn.
But if you feel you need to do it again, well, you will be supported. You need to make a boundary for yourself. And have no expectations, or atleast realistic expectations.
When we don't get what we want in this life, we ask ourselves "did I do and say everything I possibly can? I must not have." <<<<<< I am so guilty of this.
Sometimes we do all we can and still don't get the result we hope for.
