SH, dare I say that you might be in the ILYBNILWY mode? If you were truly detached, you wouldn't be worried about the fact that you are detached. I may be reading this wrongly, but you sound a little numbed? Maybe you could keep your C, but just not see your C so frequently.

I am sorry that your W is acting so immaturely. Your girls are lucky to have one parent who has a good head on his shoulders.

You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.