Continuing on last Saturday "I got a little intoxicated and showed her some affection" - this resulted in a brief 'time off', she sneaked in in my bed, snuggled, hugged, kissed.

She still knows what she wants - to leave, but she has used a chance since I am available and close, safe choice.
This one I played wrong, but hey, tomorrow is another day.

Vacation time is coming, and she still has not found a job, so I asked legitimate question: what are her plans - is she coming along with me and child, or what.
She avoids answering directly, she just said she does not know if she will get a job in next 2 weeks.
I feel sorry for her, since up until now it was I who pushed her to work and found something for her to work on, I feel like an entrepreneur - I can find new job in less than a month, be it a freelance or to work for someone. It does not have to be paid good, but I will find something. She on the other hand has to have everything done for her and now that she has to make everything on her own - she can feel that it is not always easy in real world. I am just waiting for her to learn a lesson: sometimes take the harder job for less pay just to make a living.


Me38,W36,D9
M 10y, R 14y

10/11/2015 wants to leave
25/12/2015 definitely wants to leave, makes plans
Jan 2016 started DBing
Feb 2016 sleeping in separate rooms
Sep 2016 sleeping in same room