Continuing on last Saturday "I got a little intoxicated and showed her some affection" - this resulted in a brief 'time off', she sneaked in in my bed, snuggled, hugged, kissed.
She still knows what she wants - to leave, but she has used a chance since I am available and close, safe choice. This one I played wrong, but hey, tomorrow is another day.
Vacation time is coming, and she still has not found a job, so I asked legitimate question: what are her plans - is she coming along with me and child, or what. She avoids answering directly, she just said she does not know if she will get a job in next 2 weeks. I feel sorry for her, since up until now it was I who pushed her to work and found something for her to work on, I feel like an entrepreneur - I can find new job in less than a month, be it a freelance or to work for someone. It does not have to be paid good, but I will find something. She on the other hand has to have everything done for her and now that she has to make everything on her own - she can feel that it is not always easy in real world. I am just waiting for her to learn a lesson: sometimes take the harder job for less pay just to make a living.
Me38,W36,D9 M 10y, R 14y
10/11/2015 wants to leave 25/12/2015 definitely wants to leave, makes plans Jan 2016 started DBing Feb 2016 sleeping in separate rooms Sep 2016 sleeping in same room