Hi Gabs. Read you recent post and my pennies worth is a year is a very short time frame but you must live your life as you want
You say you sent W two letters already but they weren't clear enough for your W and you will write one that is very clear I hope that works for you
Your story of your friend and how his W gave him a chance to fix what his W saw as the issues is great and a lot of us on here would have appreciated that chance but Ihis W obviously desired the M to work maybe our WASs didn't
Can I ask why you decided to post on here again because you don't belove DB has worked for you so why tell the forum what your going to do. It's a serious question because if you had already written the letter and W had changed her mind I think a lot of us would appreciate that iknowledge but as it is you knew the response you would get
As for your W saying you will move on with a new lady , , I'm like yourself , I have made no overtures to my WW about coming home and in fact shut down any efforts on her part to bring up R talk yet she has made it quite clear she does not wish me to move on with someone else. I'm almost two years into this now. If my WW had wanted back then she would have to make it abundantly clear and I wouldn't feel there would be much of a chance of a new R unless she did regardless of my actions
I'm 21 years M and 27 years in together
As for you being able to express yourself , that's great , a lot of people on here would love that ability I personally can't other than the simple I love you
I wish you the best with your letter. Please let us know how you get on as I'm sure it isn't just me who is very interested to see the result
