WAW,still angry, am I indifferent or detached now?

[Phoebe]

SH, I don't think that you should try too hard to analyze your level of detachment vs. some theoretical time frame. It's just another way to doubt and beat yourself up. I really don't believe that there is any part of this process that happens on a set schedule. Whatever happens and when it happens is going to be part of your own process, and it is normal for you. I'd simply say, celebrate your detachment. It is empowering and has insulated you from so much of you WAW's drama. Don't look a gift horse in the mouth.

It's nice to be a beacon of happiness and positive energy, just don't do it because you are trying to 'be strong for others.' Do it because it's what you really feel deep inside. If that doesn't match the way you feel inside on a given day, then let the beacon facade go for s while.

Sleep well, SH. I admire you very much.