Upwards & Onwards; It Never Rains Forever

[Irish M]

Kyh

Im ringing in late on your sitch. I actually just Finished reading the entire thing.
Hats of to you my friend for being the best dad you can be. That is all that matters here. Your has a plan and sadly feeding it to you kids. New school in the fall can mean only one thing. She has the kids. You really need to shut that down right now.

I know you want to be nice to her so she doesn't monster. If MLC her mind is gone and there is no logic. You being the nice guy won't wake her up.

You situation is very similar to mine. My STBXW has mental illness all over her family. New job in sales ( newspapers that's dying career)
New friends that influence her. Living with a loser OM.

Trust me when I say this. Do not trust her for one second. She is no longer your W. Follow your gut

Praying for you buddy

Irish