((LandC))

Please don't beat yourself up. Relationships are complicated and have many threads. I highly doubt that anything you did in the last two months had a decisive impact on the relationship.

I tend to agree with Blu. Your H has seemed very determined since the beginning. I don't know if there is anything you could do to change his mind.


Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16