Dropping the rope... I'm about there... To much has been said to go back the way it was... So it that regard I CAN drop the rope on her now... The future will and must be different... Or that's a deal breaker for me. I need to focus on dropping the current wife form not the one I fell in love with...that would be real easy ... Cause the one I love is nowhere to be found.
I agree. I guess you could call me a big talker but I agree with you that dropping the rope is easier once you divorce (pun intended!) the W you married from the current W. My WW always mentions not putting the kids in the middle... I didn't put them in the middle of this.. YOU DID! You are the one that lost her mind and is on the verge of destroying this family. I will always put the health and well being of the kids first and foremost but I'm not going to let her manipulate my love for the kids to her advantage. I've dropped every single rope you can imagine and believe me, it becomes easy once you see the WW for their true colors.
Me 45 W 39 D: 8,6 Married 14 years Start MC: Sept '15 BD: 3/30/16 End MC: 4/21/16 PA confirmed: 6/8/16 W moves to basement: 6/12/16