You mean like when you put your foot down over the coffee thingamajig and turned around and let her have it? Too bad you didn't put your foot down with her a long time ago.....especially in areas that actually carried some weight!
I know that I'm that nice guy. I'm not trying to justify being a nice guy, things like this are so trivial in the grand scheme. I want to put my foot down on things that matter, that carry weight. I've started down that path by verbally letting her know that I won't tolerate any contact from her ex. And through actions, not talk, I've already shown her that I do not NEED her. I'm getting the house back together, and getting in the best shape of my life (that's really just for me) and carrying all of the (what was once "our") bills.
As of now, there will be no need for any communication between us. I know she'll want to see the dogs, but they are mine. I'll probably be going somewhere that weekend with them
