Originally Posted By: Vanilla
Take your time.

Please keep those changes going, it's a long road ahead.

V


Yea, two months in and i feel the burnout. I find part of the changes that is difficult is the ones that require money to be spent. Like keeping up the house and stuff. Money is tight at the moment.

The only thing i can really do is change my attitude and how i deal with stuff.

Originally Posted By: JksD
Natus, be patient and work on yourself. There are some positives but you have to realise that it's still a way to go and your W will swing like the pendulum.


That is a constant worry at the back of my mind the pendulum swinging.

I admit that sometimes i think another women right now would have no problem choosing me and thats bringing my mood down. Other women are giving me attention but i want the attention of my W. Its also making me a little bit bitter.


Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs
23Mar16-BD
9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss.
27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM.
14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation.
24May17-Divorced.