Hey rich4j,

Thanks for stopping by. I don't know if moving out will save your MR. But it might save you. You are forced to think for yourself, your mind finds itself, you get more confident as you don't have anyone talking negative to you about what you do.

You kids will look at you differently, more respect as you have your own place and you get to share it with only them. It helps create a bond that only you have with them. You will find you will have days when it will be tough. It will be when you are alone. But that is what GAL is for, so make plans for when you don't have the kids. Your place is going to pull out who you are as it will reflect with what furniture you buy and paint colors you pick.

You are going to be fine, You are going to make mistakes. You are going to do what you need to do because no one else is going to do it for you.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016