Glad to hear you had such a memorable birthday. Belated wishes to you!
You sound really good. If your H is doing some water testing, I think you will handle it very well. In the meantime, I'd do as Sotto said, continue to live your life while leaving the door open.
Me: 59 and holding H: :53 Me: 1 S, 1 D, both grown M: 19 T: 23 BD: 9-23-2013
