Surfer,

My mind set with dealing with a WW is like playing No-limit Texas Hold'em.... Currently, you have the short stack and your hole cards are at 2,3 off suit.... you gotta go 'all-in' if you want any chance of winning at the table. Your instincts tell you to be cautious, play the odds but you can't, you're already at a disadvantage. Sure you can lose it all but if you don't 'play' big, but she will slowly suck you dry! Is it a long shot for sure but its probably your only shot.

I hope the poker analogy was helpful to you or someone reading this thread. You gotta let go and take a chance or you will never know what could have been.


Me 45 W 39
D: 8,6
Married 14 years
Start MC: Sept '15
BD: 3/30/16
End MC: 4/21/16
PA confirmed: 6/8/16
W moves to basement: 6/12/16