What Should I be doing (5)

[Stormchaser]

We got to one session to work together, had another fight a few days later and by the time we had the second one, she said she was done. Had spent a night at this guys house, said she didn't do anything after I confronted her there but she stayed there.

I'm sorry to hear that - unfortunately, it sounded like she already checked out at that time. That's a very sad story and quite common anymore.

We were friends with a couple about 15 years ago that had split. I vividly remember the wife in that couple saying, "I'm only going to marriage counseling to say I went and tried - I know in my heart its over". I felt so terrible for the guy because he desperately wanted it to work. Fortunately for them, they were only married about 2 years, and both have remarried others since and are living quite happily.