I am tempted to follow your advice and have the kids until we all have a routine sorted. It's early days. I have been told I could go to the weekend family thing with the kids. Unfortunately, however the WAW is wanting to go off with her friends for a weekend break in Portugal out Friday and Back Sunday. TBH its this that is really messing with my head. I feel I am supporting her and helping her have fun in a situation that feels dire for me and the kids. If I don't say yes it looks bad as I have planned something and why cant she (so I am told) but we didn't have anything arranged. Oh dear. What a mess. In fairness it feels like a big deal right now, but is it really.......???? I am worried for the kids also as they may feel a bit deserted by their Mum.......I can say no but feel I should have the kids. Any thoughts......?
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