Hey Roist.

Yes I am not fully detached. Alsomst there I think. Not seing W everyday has helped. Living for me and my two boys and dog has helped. My thoughts are on the tasks of the day the million things that need to get done that there is not much time to even think about the sitch.

Kids picked out a birthday card that was for a mom. It said she is the glue that holds the family together. Open it and it has the mom holding everything else, and it basically said that she holds everything else together. It was a funny card to my kids. And to me it does hold some truth. If W chooses to she can be the glue that keeps this family together. With out her making that choice we are not a family. So hang that backwards truth dart on your fridge W.

She forwarded me the gas bill for the old house to me last night. I did not reply, no need to.

Kids were all wound up and it took them a while to go to bed.

I set out their clothes for the next day and made their lunches.

In the morning the baby sitter shows up, S7 wakes up , S4 still asleep and I leave for work. She takes them to school for me.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016