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[Zues126]

coffee...it's all good bro. I have no problem with what you did last night. If it helps you get closure and start to detach then I'm fine with it.

What a serial adulterer thinks of how you handle her family destroying infidelity doesn't matter to me, any more than a 3 year old that screams how much they hate you because you didn't buy them the ice cream cone they wanted at McDonalds.

It's all about you here coffee. I still think what you do matters, but for YOU. When you do your best to live the way you think a man should every day, it just makes it easier to shrug off the spew and insanity she hurls at you. So please keep DBing in terms of detaching, growing (180s), GAL (finding new ways to meet your emotional needs), and finding your own happiness. DBing is all about you anyway, whether or not she wants to tango doesn't matter, and for your sake I'm glad this woman doesn't want to because she is very bad news.

Please keep posting c. The next year will be difficult, but if you play your cards right you will find happiness and contentment that you didn't believe you'd ever have in your life. I am there. I didn't think it was possible with my marriage ending, but I've learned the secret. I've become appreciative day by day of what I do have. My loss forced me to learn to let go and be happy with reality, because it finally got through my thick skull that life doesn't give you what you want, so you have to learn to want what you get.

Talk soon.