New to Site - Just found about another

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I quit DBing, she is so far gone, tonight she told me that my actions made her like the OM more, still not admitting to the A, so she will be a divorced 43 year old dating a guy she works with...I wonder what will happen when they figure out they can't trust each other....[censored] but it just has to be over. I probably made poor choices last night. But I needed to know the final piece of the puzzle for sure.
Met with the L today, going to get the ball rolling...