I don't want to hijack your thread but I'll share some of my story later on. Simply put: lies, deception, and conniving.... I literally can't trust ANY thing she says.
After confirming the PA:
Me: Who are you texting? ( I have a boundary about texting in my presence) W: Sarah (long time friend), here look (she shows me the phone across the table). Me: I am not a fool, I know about the texting apps, you're texting some guy. W: (Deer-in-the-headlights look) Me: (Leave the house, it is my established response to her crossing the boundary).
I need to re-read your S and we can commensurate later!
I tracked mine with a gps ... Asked , she lied... She sheot o gold one when I told her the street her car was on all night. Says she was at a party trying to find single friend a rich Doctor... Hate to say it but she was probably looking ... I just wish she would just say F it and leave me the kids and just do her sheot away from us! Lately she's been rough on d13 .. About lying and not treating people nice... Now that's irony ...daughter even picked up on it..so I told her your mom is struggling with some things... She said "I know" - they are smarter than you think...
Me:47 XW 43 D15 D10 Together 17 married 15 Bd : Mother's Day 2015 Sep :July 2015 Divorce final October 2016