New here. Here is my story.

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Shawn, I have a 3+ year old. My wife will be gone 4 weeks on Father's day. I know exactly how you feel. I want my family back together too. I see you've been getting some 2x4s, I'll try to give you some softer advice.

You probably feel like crap, your world has ended and you don't understand anything that's going on. Been there. It's hell. You're 2mos in, you can't think of this as a chase. If you do, you'll never catch her. If you feel those emotions "Why don't you try?" "What will fix this?" you've GOT to keep it to yourself. All it will do is put you at square one and make her angry. Trust me.

You can't think "How can I save this" all the time. You'll drive yourself nuts and do/say crazy things that will drive her away very quickly. Get the Divorce Remedy book. Read it. Start doing things out of the house, take a step back and look at yourself. Do you like who you are? Are you different than the man you were 6mos ago? 1yr? 18mos? Those are the first things I'd say you should do.

You need to build your confidence before you do anything. And zip up when you want to scream at her for breaking up the family.