I don't want to hijack your thread but I'll share some of my story later on. Simply put: lies, deception, and conniving.... I literally can't trust ANY thing she says.
After confirming the PA:
Me: Who are you texting? ( I have a boundary about texting in my presence) W: Sarah (long time friend), here look (she shows me the phone across the table). Me: I am not a fool, I know about the texting apps, you're texting some guy. W: (Deer-in-the-headlights look) Me: (Leave the house, it is my established response to her crossing the boundary).
I need to re-read your S and we can commensurate later!
Me 45 W 39 D: 8,6 Married 14 years Start MC: Sept '15 BD: 3/30/16 End MC: 4/21/16 PA confirmed: 6/8/16 W moves to basement: 6/12/16