What you have to realize is that right now, your W DOESN'T want you to be in contact with her. Trying to connect with her will only drive her away. My WW was angry about my detachment and going dark but when I talked to her about it, she agreed that it would have only pushed her further away if I had pursued. So don't do it!
The one thing I am worried about is the last year or so of our marriage I was detached from her and had very little contact. There was do DB at all. I was just resentful towards her. That was one of the things that upset her and drove her away. If I continue to remain detached wouldn't she still think it was the same as when we were together?
M 55 W 52 MR 32 T 34+ D29 BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email) No EA/PA August 23 - DB used against me in every way Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day
